kua fu in the modern society -j9九游会网站

i believe that every chinese people are familiarwith the story of kua fu, it says a braggadocio who miscalculating hisstrength, conceived the vain ambition of overtaking the fleeting rays of thesun, he died in the middle way because of thirst. this story tells us thatpeople should not be ignorant of one’s strength or doing something beyond one’sability. however, there is an alarming amount of kua fu in modern society.

������ÿ���й��˶���ϥ�丸�ĺ��£�˵����һ����ţ���˴���ع������լ���ʵ����ұ�ij�������ҫ׷�����⣬���������ڰ�·��������¸����������dz�ӧ�������լ��������������������լ����������顣ȼ�����ִ��丸����ŀ��þ��ˡ�

why someone will become kua fu? i believethat one of the main reasons for this question is that we had been educated tobe confidence in all kind of circumstance. remember what our parents and teachersaid to us when we were young? “you can do that!” “you got it!” “you are thebest!” i didn’t mean that praise and encouragement will lead to arrogant, butwhen we judge a kid, a pertinent evaluation is fine, if we praise them blindly,it will make children understand their own ability mistakenly.

ϊʲô���˻��ɿ丸������������������ҫԭ������ϊ����һֱ���������κ�����¶�ҫ�������űɡ����ǵ�����сʱ��ĸ����ʦ������˵��ʲôô��“�����õ��ģ�” “�����у�” “������õģ�”�ҳ���˵�����͹���������դ󣬵��ǵ���������һ�����ӵ�ʱ���пϵ����۾ͺ��ˣ��������äŀ�����������ú��ӵ���ع����լ��������ġ�

another reason is that young people innowadays are eager and willing to undertake anything risky. unlike the oldstyle, people usually will not do something unless they have more than 80%success rate, but now, less than 50% is acceptable. the hunger for successmakes people wrongly estimate their strength.

��һ��ԭ��������ڵ������˿�����ը��ð�κεķ��ա�������һ�ɵ����磬����ͨ����û����80%�ijɹ��ʵ�ʱ�򲻻�ȥ��ij���£��������ڣ�50%���ܽ����ˡ��ɹ��ŀ��������ǵ���ع������լ���ʵ����

in short, people should understand theirability, don’t attempt to do something far more beyond one’s ability. asuccessful challenge would add luster to life, but it only happen to the personwho are fully prepare and admired power and ambition.

����֮������ӧ��֪���լ���ʵ������ҫ��ͼȥ��զզ�����լ����������顣�ɹ�����ս�������������ʣ�������ֻ�����ڳ��׼������ʵ����ұ�ĵ������ϡ�